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Decide with What You Have, Not Perfection

Inspired by Jonathan Becker episode

You'll never have all the data about which preschool is 'best' - just like you'll never have all the product data.

You've toured three preschools. One's Montessori but far. One's close but looks like Lord of the Flies with finger paint. One has a garden but costs more than your first car.

So you do what any rational person does: create a spreadsheet. Pros, cons, weighted scoring. You join Facebook groups. You ask strangers at the playground. You refresh the reviews at 2am like you're tracking a package.

Jonathan Becker's strategic wisdom: you make choices with incomplete information. There's no perfect feature prioritization. There's no perfect preschool either.

At some point you list what actually matters—close to home, outdoor space, teachers who seem stable—and you decide. Then you commit. Because waiting for perfect information means you miss the deadline and end up on a waitlist behind 47 families who all decided in February.

Strategy is moving forward with what you've got, not waiting for clarity that isn't coming.

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While this advice is inspired by Jonathan Becker's quotes, it does not necessarily mean they would agree with it. Much like your kids or mother-in-law. If you see something odd though, you can .