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Social Proof Beats Parental Pitch

Inspired by Christian Idiodi episode

Christian Idiodi won't launch until he has 6-8 B2B references willing to vouch publicly. Your kid won't try new things either. Stop being the product manager. Become the reference recruiter.

Christian's rule at SVPG: if you can't find six to eight customers who'll publicly vouch for your solution, you don't have product-market fit. You have a theory.

Your 4-year-old is terrified of preschool. You've delivered seventeen presentations about the playground, the nice teacher, the art corner. You're pitching features nobody asked for. Your kid's looking at you like you're describing a minimum viable prison.

Christian doesn't pitch his staffing product. He gets McDonald's to hire 800 people successfully, then McDonald's becomes the reference for the next client. You need preschool reference customers. Arrange two playdates with kids who already go there. Let THEM tell your kid about Miss Sarah's funny voices and the big slide. By day one, your kid knows three validators. You're not selling anymore—you're the person who connected them to social proof.

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While this advice is inspired by Christian Idiodi's quotes, it does not necessarily mean they would agree with it. Much like your kids or mother-in-law. If you see something odd though, you can .